cold coffee and contradictions

the bizzare ramblings of an over active mind


girls dont want you to be nice to them because they’re girls they want you to be nice to them because they’re human beings and you should be nice to everyone wtf is wrong with you

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Reflection #1

Next time some boy comes at me with the “I’m sorry, I can’t get over the fact that you don’t have a boyfriend” line, I’m gonna hand him an unabridged list of reasons.

Better yet, take his number and then just keep texting him reasons, text him when he least expects it, never stop texting him reasons

(via imbitingmytongue)

This is actually the shittiest thing to say ever. If you love her you should let her know, not try and disguise your cowardice behind some shitty “I’m such a nice guy I’ll let her be alone” rubbish. If she doesn’t want to be with you she won’t be with you, regardless of whether or not you want to be with her. I feel like this is just a manipulative statement men use to try and make women think they are so chivalrous and caring when in actuality it’s just a way to either try and trick the woman into thinking you’re really nice and caring and stay or b. to make the woman think you care about her when you really don’t and you just can’t be bothered making the hard call to leave her yourself. Think about it, if a man actually thought this he wouldn’t tell you because he wouldn’t want to hurt you. If he says this it’s for personal gain (aka asshole selfish move). I’m sorry this hasn’t been the most articulate of messages but this topic gives me so many feels and it’s not romantic it’s just fucking shit

In conclusion you let her go because you’re actually a fucking coward/ you don’t want to be with her anymore

(Source: kpfun, via catzocruz)

Those who love you are not fooled by mistakes you have made, or by dark images you hold about yourself. They remember your beauty when you feel ugly; your wholeness when you are broken; your innocence when you feel guilty; and your purpose when you are confused.